RESPECT
What does it mean to be a real man?
Is it about your physical abilities? Is it about sexual conquests or being desired by a woman? About status, money, and power? Those things may gain you some attention, but they won’t get you self-respect.
And we know that you want to look in the mirror and see someone you respect. You were made for that.
And that self-respect only comes when you have chosen a life of doing what is right, instead of what is easy. It comes from being willing to give and even sacrifice for the people around you, instead of just using them to get what you want.
True masculinity protects women, refusing to reduce them to objects that can be consumed.
Perhaps you never had someone model this kind of manhood to you. You may have grown up with a distorted view of what would make you happy, or of what women existed for.
True masculinity may feel like an intimidating wilderness with no map or compass, but we want to remind you that God came to earth as a MAN and lived an example for all other men to follow. He created a trail that you can follow.
Jesus said clearly, “If any man wants to find life, he will have to lay it down.” He was speaking to the incredible way that men can create healthy atmospheres with the love and respect that they give to others.
Today is a new day. No matter what your past may have been, your future can include respect.
Even if others do not affirm or applaud you, you can know that you are making a difference. Not only that - God is watching your brave choices and He is proud of you.
We invite you to explore this space on The Union Movement, to stay in touch, and to reach out if we can support you in your journey towards feeling respected in your personhood.
Here are a few other blog posts that may be helpful to you as a man:
And, if you’re looking for a reminder of these truths, you’ll also find some images you can print out.
